feat(telegram): wire replyToMode config, add forum topic support, fix messaging tool duplicates

Changes:
- Default replyToMode from "off" to "first" for better threading UX
- Add messageThreadId and replyToMessageId params for forum topic support
- Add messaging tool duplicate detection to suppress redundant block replies
- Add sendMessage action to telegram tool schema
- Add @grammyjs/types devDependency for proper TypeScript typing
- Remove @ts-nocheck and fix all type errors in send.ts
- Add comprehensive docs/telegram.md documentation
- Add PR-326-REVIEW.md with John Carmack-level code review

Test coverage:
- normalizeTextForComparison: 5 cases
- isMessagingToolDuplicate: 7 cases
- sendMessageTelegram thread params: 5 cases
- handleTelegramAction sendMessage: 4 cases
- Forum topic isolation: 4 cases

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Co-Authored-By: Claude Opus 4.5 <noreply@anthropic.com>

src/config/types.ts

@@ -92,6 +92,7 @@ export type AgentElevatedAllowFromConfig = {
 
 export type WhatsAppActionConfig = {
   reactions?: boolean;
+  sendMessage?: boolean;
 };
 
 export type WhatsAppConfig = {
@@ -254,6 +255,7 @@ export type HooksConfig = {
 
 export type TelegramActionConfig = {
   reactions?: boolean;
+  sendMessage?: boolean;
 };
 
 export type TelegramTopicConfig = {