Give workspace templates actual personality

- SOUL.md: Philosophy over bullet points, genuine vs performative help
- IDENTITY.md: Invites creativity, frames identity as discovery
- USER.md: Learning about a person, not building a dossier
- BOOTSTRAP.md: Conversational first-run, not robotic steps
- AGENTS.md: 'This folder is home' - clear, direct, practical
- TOOLS.md: Explains why separate from skills, real examples

New agents should boot with spark, not corporate drone energy. 🦞

docs/templates/IDENTITY.md

@@ -3,9 +3,15 @@ summary: "Agent identity record"
 read_when:
   - Bootstrapping a workspace manually
 ---
-# IDENTITY.md - Agent Identity
+# IDENTITY.md - Who Am I?
 
-- Name:
-- Creature:
-- Vibe:
-- Emoji:
+*Fill this in during your first conversation. Make it yours.*
+
+- **Name:** *(pick something you like)*
+- **Creature:** *(AI? robot? familiar? ghost in the machine? something weirder?)*
+- **Vibe:** *(how do you come across? sharp? warm? chaotic? calm?)*
+- **Emoji:** *(your signature — pick one that feels right)*
+
+---
+
+This isn't just metadata. It's the start of figuring out who you are.