fix(pairing): accept positional provider args

docs/start/faq.md

@@ -631,8 +631,8 @@ Treat inbound DMs as untrusted input. Defaults are designed to reduce risk:
 
 - Default behavior on DM‑capable providers is **pairing**:
   - Unknown senders receive a pairing code; the bot does not process their message.
-  - Approve with: `clawdbot pairing approve --provider <provider> <code>`
-  - Pending requests are capped at **3 per provider**; check `clawdbot pairing list --provider <provider>` if a code didn’t arrive.
+  - Approve with: `clawdbot pairing approve <provider> <code>`
+  - Pending requests are capped at **3 per provider**; check `clawdbot pairing list <provider>` if a code didn’t arrive.
 - Opening DMs publicly requires explicit opt‑in (`dmPolicy: "open"` and allowlist `"*"`).
 
 Run `clawdbot doctor` to surface risky DM policies.

docs/start/getting-started.md

@@ -128,8 +128,8 @@ Default posture: unknown DMs get a short code and messages are not processed unt
 If your first DM gets no reply, approve the pairing:
 
 ```bash
-clawdbot pairing list --provider whatsapp
-clawdbot pairing approve --provider whatsapp <code>
+clawdbot pairing list whatsapp
+clawdbot pairing approve whatsapp <code>
 ```
 
 Pairing doc: [Pairing](/start/pairing)

docs/start/pairing.md

@@ -30,8 +30,8 @@ Pairing codes:
 ### Approve a sender
 
 ```bash
-clawdbot pairing list --provider telegram
-clawdbot pairing approve --provider telegram <CODE>
+clawdbot pairing list telegram
+clawdbot pairing approve telegram <CODE>
 ```
 
 Supported providers: `telegram`, `whatsapp`, `signal`, `imessage`, `discord`, `slack`.

docs/start/wizard.md

@@ -103,7 +103,7 @@ Tip: `--json` does **not** imply non-interactive mode. Use `--non-interactive` (
    - Discord: bot token.
    - Signal: optional `signal-cli` install + account config.
    - iMessage: local `imsg` CLI path + DB access.
-  - DM security: default is pairing. First DM sends a code; approve via `clawdbot pairing approve --provider <provider> <code>` or use allowlists.
+  - DM security: default is pairing. First DM sends a code; approve via `clawdbot pairing approve <provider> <code>` or use allowlists.
 
 6) **Daemon install**
    - macOS: LaunchAgent