fix: unify control command handling

src/auto-reply/command-detection.ts

@@ -0,0 +1,26 @@
+const CONTROL_COMMAND_RE =
+  /(?:^|\s)\/(?:status|thinking|think|t|verbose|v|elevated|elev|model|queue|activation|send|restart|reset|new)(?=$|\s|:)\b/i;
+
+const CONTROL_COMMAND_EXACT = new Set([
+  "status",
+  "/status",
+  "restart",
+  "/restart",
+  "activation",
+  "/activation",
+  "send",
+  "/send",
+  "reset",
+  "/reset",
+  "new",
+  "/new",
+]);
+
+export function hasControlCommand(text?: string): boolean {
+  if (!text) return false;
+  const trimmed = text.trim();
+  if (!trimmed) return false;
+  const lowered = trimmed.toLowerCase();
+  if (CONTROL_COMMAND_EXACT.has(lowered)) return true;
+  return CONTROL_COMMAND_RE.test(text);
+}