feat: add gateway dev config options

docs/cli/gateway.md

@@ -39,6 +39,8 @@ Notes:
 - `--password <password>`: password override (also sets `CLAWDBOT_GATEWAY_PASSWORD` for the process).
 - `--tailscale <off|serve|funnel>`: expose the Gateway via Tailscale.
 - `--tailscale-reset-on-exit`: reset Tailscale serve/funnel config on shutdown.
+- `--dev`: create a dev config + workspace if missing (skips BOOTSTRAP.md).
+- `--reset`: recreate the dev config (requires `--dev`).
 - `--force`: kill any existing listener on the selected port before starting.
 - `--verbose`: verbose logs.
 - `--claude-cli-logs`: only show claude-cli logs in the console (and enable its stdout/stderr).
@@ -82,6 +84,25 @@ clawdbot gateway status
 clawdbot gateway status --json
 ```
 
+#### Remote over SSH (Mac app parity)
+
+The macOS app “Remote over SSH” mode uses a local port-forward so the remote gateway (which may be bound to loopback only) becomes reachable at `ws://127.0.0.1:<port>`.
+
+CLI equivalent:
+
+```bash
+clawdbot gateway status --ssh steipete@peters-mac-studio-1
+```
+
+Options:
+- `--ssh <target>`: `user@host` or `user@host:port` (port defaults to `22`).
+- `--ssh-identity <path>`: identity file.
+- `--ssh-auto`: pick the first discovered bridge host as SSH target (LAN/WAB only).
+
+Config (optional, used as defaults):
+- `gateway.remote.sshTarget`
+- `gateway.remote.sshIdentity`
+
 ### `gateway call <method>`
 
 Low-level RPC helper.

docs/cli/index.md

@@ -409,6 +409,8 @@ Options:
 - `--tailscale <off|serve|funnel>`
 - `--tailscale-reset-on-exit`
 - `--allow-unconfigured`
+- `--dev`
+- `--reset`
 - `--force` (kill existing listener on port)
 - `--verbose`
 - `--ws-log <auto|full|compact>`