fix: provider startup order and enable flags

docs/telegram.md

@@ -17,7 +17,7 @@ Status: ready for bot-mode use with grammY (long-polling by default; webhook sup
 ## How it will work (Bot API)
 1) Create a bot with @BotFather and grab the token.
 2) Configure Clawdis with `TELEGRAM_BOT_TOKEN` (or `telegram.botToken` in `~/.clawdis/clawdis.json`).
-3) Run the gateway; it auto-starts Telegram when the bot token is set.
+3) Run the gateway; it auto-starts Telegram when the bot token is set (unless `telegram.enabled = false`).
    - **Long-polling** is the default.
    - **Webhook mode** is enabled by setting `telegram.webhookUrl` (optionally `telegram.webhookSecret` / `telegram.webhookPath`).
      - The webhook listener currently binds to `0.0.0.0:8787` and serves `POST /telegram-webhook` by default.
@@ -42,6 +42,7 @@ Example config:
 ```json5
 {
   telegram: {
+    enabled: true,
     botToken: "123:abc",
     requireMention: true,
     allowFrom: ["123456789"], // direct chat ids allowed (or "*")