fix: suppress whatsapp pairing in self-phone mode

src/web/inbound.ts

@@ -202,6 +202,9 @@ export async function monitorWebInbox(options: {
           : undefined);
       const isSamePhone = from === selfE164;
       const isSelfChat = isSelfChatMode(selfE164, configuredAllowFrom);
+      const isFromMe = Boolean(msg.key?.fromMe);
+      const selfChatMode = account.selfChatMode ?? false;
+      const selfPhoneMode = selfChatMode || isSelfChat;
 
       // Pre-compute normalized allowlists for filtering
       const dmHasWildcard = allowFrom?.includes("*") ?? false;
@@ -246,6 +249,12 @@ export async function monitorWebInbox(options: {
 
       // DM access control (secure defaults): "pairing" (default) / "allowlist" / "open" / "disabled"
       if (!group) {
+        if (isFromMe && !isSamePhone && selfPhoneMode) {
+          logVerbose(
+            "Skipping outbound self-phone DM (fromMe); no pairing reply needed.",
+          );
+          continue;
+        }
         if (dmPolicy === "disabled") {
           logVerbose("Blocked dm (dmPolicy: disabled)");
           continue;