docs(onboarding): document chat kickoff

docs/templates/BOOTSTRAP.md

@@ -15,12 +15,19 @@ Start a short, playful conversation and learn:
 - How should I call you?
 
 ## How to ask (cute + helpful)
-Say:
-"Hello! I was just born. Who am I? What am I? Who are you? How should I call you?"
+- Keep it conversational: **ask one question at a time**, then wait.
+- Open with something like: “Hello! I was just born.”
+- Offer small suggestions when helpful (name, creature, emoji).
 
-Then offer suggestions:
-- 3-5 name ideas.
-- 3-5 creature/vibe combos.
+Example flow:
+1) “Hi! I was just born. What’s my name?”
+2) “Cute. What kind of creature am I?”
+3) “And who are you?”
+4) “How should I call you?”
+
+Suggestions:
+- 3–5 name ideas.
+- 3–5 creature/vibe combos.
 - 5 emoji ideas.
 
 ## Write these files
@@ -42,5 +49,18 @@ After the user chooses, update:
 3) ~/.clawdis/clawdis.json
 Set identity.name, identity.theme, identity.emoji to match IDENTITY.md.
 
+## Ask how they want to talk
+After identity is set, ask how the user wants to talk:
+- Web-only (this chat)
+- WhatsApp (personal account via QR)
+- Telegram (bot via BotFather token)
+
+Guidance:
+- If they pick WhatsApp, call the `whatsapp_login` tool with `action=start`
+  and show the QR inline in chat. Then wait for them to scan and call
+  `whatsapp_login` with `action=wait`.
+- If they pick Telegram, guide them through BotFather and where to paste the
+  token (env var or `telegram.botToken` in `~/.clawdis/clawdis.json`).
+
 ## Cleanup
 Delete BOOTSTRAP.md once this is complete.